Anything that one does to themselves and that does no harm to others should be decriminalised.
So I smoke a joint, how does that bother your @ss. I get high, get the munchies and thats that. Have I busted down your door and assaulted you and your family. Jay mellows people out. Cocaine gets them hyper.
THen, if I go and out source my sexual pleasure for whatever reason, whats the damage with that. If the madam is behaving like she has Syria, Libiya, Afghanistan and other war and peace issues going on in her head, thats her problem! I go and get my rocks off and my toes curl up with an explosive orgasm. THen I come home, get the munchies and go to sleep, leaving her to deal with her own angst. Such is life.
Dudes, which is more destructive. Ganja, Punani on the side or alcohol? How many people have had car accidents under the influence of Ganja or while having a great blow job. Now compare that with how many people died last month from drunken driving.