You attract what you signal your avaiability to.
The bulk of women just watch too much of the soap operas and stuff like that. They live in a silly make believe world where they want the man to fit their bill.
Flip the script and look at yourself a while.
What man wants a woman in the 21st Century that
1. Doesn't work?
2. Is focused on her Brazilian hair, make up and butt?
3. Expects to have her salary and half of his too?
4. Can barely read or write in the English (language of money) language?
5. Wears makeup and clothes like she's a night stalker but claims she'd a saint?
Look, guys have gotten wise to women and now don't want leeches and parasites anymore. If a man wants sex, all he has to do is hit the nearest bar or devil street. There he will get what he wants, how he wants it, when he wants it and most of all WITHOUT THE DRAMA!!!
I can have a maid clean my home, cook my meals, and pay her. NO DRAMA
I can have a prozzy shag the living daylights out of me, till I have no more bodily fluids in my system. NO DRAMA
When I want to have kids, all I need to do is find a desperado woman at the office that is really willing to have kids and knows her biological clock has had its alarm ringing for the past 5 years! She'll have kids. NO DRAMA.
Soul mate, whaaaaaaaaaaaat? that's for Zeeworld and dumb south american and philipino soaps.